Human nature is very flexible. Flexibility is one of the
major gifts of nature to the human beings. It enables us to adjust in almost
all types of environments and situations. But here is the dilemma; most of us
get pressurized when the situation we are facing is changed, or to say, it goes
against our mood.
This is the trigger of different psychological and physical
problems ultimately most of us face due to increased tension and depression.
Flexibility is the greatest tool to handle these kinds of situations. Tension
and depression, if not addressed in time, may hamper our performance and
health.
Here are some steps which can help in reducing depression
and solving problems:
1.
Start
with physical exercise
Believe it or not, brisk walk is the exercise which reduces tension to great extent. This fact is now supported by authenticated scientific researchers. Brisk walk has a direct relation with psychology. It changes repressive thoughts and promotes positiveness in your mind.
Believe it or not, brisk walk is the exercise which reduces tension to great extent. This fact is now supported by authenticated scientific researchers. Brisk walk has a direct relation with psychology. It changes repressive thoughts and promotes positiveness in your mind.
2.
Think
carefully
Identify the causes that are irritating you. Identify the centers of your problems. Concentrate on analyzing your problem. Major part of problems and grievances is resolved when we identify the actual problems.
Identify the causes that are irritating you. Identify the centers of your problems. Concentrate on analyzing your problem. Major part of problems and grievances is resolved when we identify the actual problems.
3.
Identify
the negativities you are getting from unfavorable events
For example, why are you getting irritated when an electric motor runs; due to its irritating voice. So here voice is the negativity that is disturbing you. In other words, discover the harmful effects of the problems you are facing.
For example, why are you getting irritated when an electric motor runs; due to its irritating voice. So here voice is the negativity that is disturbing you. In other words, discover the harmful effects of the problems you are facing.
4.
Once you
have discovered the problems and its effects upon you, you can now prepare an
exit strategy
You may ask questions from yourself and from your family and friends about the problem. If you have gone through first two steps, you can easily explain to others about your problem.
You may ask questions from yourself and from your family and friends about the problem. If you have gone through first two steps, you can easily explain to others about your problem.
5.
Above
mentioned four steps have narrowed the boundaries of the evil
You can now easily spot the trouble and trouble maker. Now you can prepare yourself to fight against trouble and if you cannot eradicate it completely, you may work for minimizing the adverse effects of it. This step involves heavily the self belief, self motivation, will power and your intelligence. Among these, SELF BELIEF and WILL POWER are major tools to fight.
You can now easily spot the trouble and trouble maker. Now you can prepare yourself to fight against trouble and if you cannot eradicate it completely, you may work for minimizing the adverse effects of it. This step involves heavily the self belief, self motivation, will power and your intelligence. Among these, SELF BELIEF and WILL POWER are major tools to fight.
6.
Modify
your diet to to help in your fight against depression
Decreased intake of sugar, oily food, junk food, salt and sweet dishes will help your mind to think actively. A balanced routine of diet is a major component which will help you in getting out of worse. Majority of people totally neglect this issue, but if one is really striving for coming out of trouble, one must set his diet schedule.
Decreased intake of sugar, oily food, junk food, salt and sweet dishes will help your mind to think actively. A balanced routine of diet is a major component which will help you in getting out of worse. Majority of people totally neglect this issue, but if one is really striving for coming out of trouble, one must set his diet schedule.
7.
Keep
continuing to ask questions to yourself about your problem
If this happens then what will happen? How would I deal the situation if this happens? These questions will help you in simplifying your issues.
If this happens then what will happen? How would I deal the situation if this happens? These questions will help you in simplifying your issues.
8.
Take your
fight against depression as training
This is a way to see negative things with a positive mind. This will enhance positivity. Try to find positive things in the issues related with you.
This is a way to see negative things with a positive mind. This will enhance positivity. Try to find positive things in the issues related with you.
9.
Monitor
your progress
When you will start getting out of it, tell yourself that you can do it, make sure not to lose your success and try to maintain the pace of progress. This is a great way of overcoming the situation. Try not to look back on miseries, but if you do this, then this must be for a positive comparison.
When you will start getting out of it, tell yourself that you can do it, make sure not to lose your success and try to maintain the pace of progress. This is a great way of overcoming the situation. Try not to look back on miseries, but if you do this, then this must be for a positive comparison.
Syed Talal Hassan Bukhari
talal.hassan5@gmail.com
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