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19 Oct 2012

You Can Achieve Anything Your Heart Desires

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Nothing in this world is unachievable. There are thousands of examples to justify this fact. In life, there is always reasonable room for improvement. To achieve your target goals, you should be motivated and consistent. You don`t have to listen negative comments, but if you do, just let them pass through your mind.

When you are in any profession, you have to set aside your emotions and your professional life is a different dimension than the life that is full of emotions. The successful man is one who contains both these aspects of his life successfully. Every dimension of your life teaches you some lesson, but the one who gains a difference is he who learns that lesson and this requires deep observation.

In your life, there are many people around you, but among them there are a very few who understand you. You face different remarks and comments all the time from these people around you. Often I see that many of us get pressurized or depressed by these remarks. We can avoid the situation by answering some rational questions; who is commenting on you? Why he is commenting? If someone is sincere to you, even he or she is giving you wrong advice or criticizing you; you should understand that he takes your problem seriously. And those who want to lower you down just forget them. It is obvious that when you stand for a goal, you will have to face hardships.
These are some common problems which almost all professionals face, but I am more concerned about students. For students it is important to identify your goals. Friends are very important, but more important is your friend selection. There is a well known saying
"Work with all but tie with few"
A working relationship is necessary, but it must not distract you from your goals. A good test of friendship is that, whether your friend helping you in achieve your target goals or not?
Do not expect! Structure your relationship on sincerity and you will find that sincerity does not want return. When you eliminate expectations from your relationships you have resolved 70% of your relationship issues. Trust is another factor that influences your relationships and decisions. Some people habitually act in a hurry to place their trust which sometimes harms them. Basically these two are the key factors that play an important part in controlling your behavior.
Difficulties in one`s life is like a furnace which purifies gold. We should take these difficulties as training, a training that will help you to hunt down problems or to deal with them in future.
These are my views, my experiences that I tried to share with you. It is my goal that hopefully one person will benefit from it.

Syed Talal Hassan Bukhari
talal.hassan5@gmail.com

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16 Oct 2012

IS PAKISTAN RIPE FOR A SOCIAL REVOLUTION?

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Is Pakistan ripe for a social revolution? My answer is ‘no’.

A former finance minister, Dr. Mahbub ul Haq (previously chief, planning commission at the world bank), advocated investment in people and on that basis presented the country’s budget as finance minister in the 1985-86. He even advocated a scheme of ‘each one teach one’ on the Chinese pattern. However, after his departure, the successive government paid little heed to the social sector namely education and health, except from lip service.
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16 Sept 2012

A Self-Analysis: Why Isn’t The Spirit Of Islam Permeating Our Souls?

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I  do not know how the Muslims in other countries live and the pattern of behaviour is in their lives and how they conduct themselves in various fields of  human activity for example in homes, in the courts, in the markets, or the airports. However, two incidents happened in the space of a week. The first incident happened when a senior diplomat posted in Saudi Arabia told me on my visit there that the Saudi hosts told a trade delegation which he then was escorting that the people of Pakistan are liars and cheats.  I underwent a similar experience in Jeddah.

The other day, my son, Saad, and I bought quality mangoes at a higher price. But when we tasted them at home, they were mostly mixed: some of them were sweet and some were sour and inferior. Lying and cheating has been the usual pattern of our lives since the country’s Independence.

I am not a scholar of Islam. I am an honest, upright and straightforward Muslim who values his integrity above everything less. I have no means of estimating the number of people who read, understood and followed the Quranic Injunctions. Suffice to say that given our tendency to be dishonest in everyday life, not many people adhere to them. Of late many reputed Islamic scholars decried this waywardness in an Islamic society particularly when it gained Independence on an Islamic slogan.

Two prominent Islamic scholars Mufti Nazeer and Mufti Zubair with the host Aneeq Ahmed were discussing a similar topic, which is very close to my heart, in a programme aired by the Dunya TV the other morning. Mufti Zubair counted many failings in our society, both of them agreed that:
  1. Islam does not mean only prayers (Namaz or salaat), fasting, giving zakat or other forms of charity laid down in the Holy Quran.
  2. Islam does not mean wearing a cap or any headdress to offer prayers and its removal when leaving the mosque.
  3. Islam also means the way we conduct our daily lives: the way we deal in the markets as sellers and buyers, in the courts as judges and lawyers and as litigants etc.

Those Islamic scholars referred to the appropriate style of governance and the people governed in the west and compared to us.

In the recent past, I have written a series of articles on the topics namely:

The next day following the night of Laila-tul-Qadar, a man mentioned to me how he enjoyed that night. I told him that a year has 365 days and for a devout Muslim each night is a special night. However, I told him that a society steeped in sin of which they do not know or do not care as adulteration in food, how is that when entering a mosque pangs of conscience do not prick them.

Prayers or Namaz (Urdu) As-salaat (Arabic) are means for avoiding evil. However, for the last sixty five years we have been praying for Divine Guidance. Allah is perfect. His Prophets are perfect. His Quran is perfect. His Prophet and His last Messenger (Peace and Blessings of Allah be upon him) are perfect. His Injunctions contained in the Holy Quran are perfect. What are imperfect are man and his way of doing things.

There was a time when kings ruled the countries in Europe. Battles were fought by the kings or in the name of the king. The kings and their noblemen lived in luxury while the populace lived in misery. Robin Hood, William Tell and others were such folk heroes who struggled against the oppression of the gentry. The rise of fall of Oliver Cromwell and his Puritans in England and the French Revolution in France led to democracy in their respective countries. Of course, much blood was shed in the process. However, a process of evolution in the form of the Industrial Revolution was simultaneously taking place not only in those two countries but elsewhere in Europe. However, a reading of authors of that time for e.g. George Eliot’s “Adam Bede” and Charles Dickens’s “David Copperfield”, Thomas Hardy tells us that education was not common, Ordinary people could not read even The Bible. However, gradually educational institutions of renown such as Oxford, Cambridge, Eton and Harrow were established. European writers of the time, Voltaire, Rousseau, Carlyle, Mills, Ruskin and Locke helped to mould public opinion as did Sir Syed Ahmad and Allama Iqbal in India in the past centuries. Whereas Faiz Ahmed Faiz, Ahmed Nadeem Qasimi, Ahmed Faraz, Dr. Wazir Agha and Ashfaq Ahmed Who lived and died in our age. Now the present generation of thinkers like Orya Maqbool Jan, Bilal Qutab and Zaid Hamid are molding public opinion.

However, gone are those days when kings and nobility were powerful? After the end of the Second World War, a new thinking has taken over. Peace and cooperation has replaced wars. Initially there were six members of the European Common Market at various stages of economic development with Germany leading and Italy at the end. However, the fruit of economic development was visible in a few years to the six members of the ECM.

I am sorry for this detour in the realms of European history and literature. But I wanted to show that society in the west has evolved to the extent that an age of reasoning and enquiry has set.  Education, health, quality of food and living standards are high. Licenses of doctors and lawyers are cancelled if they do not treat their clients properly.

The only charge that is leveled against the west is that of promiscuity and lewdness. That is the prevailing social norm. East is east and west is west. The twain shall never meet. Be it as it may, there is a method in the madness. All laws are meant to be followed whether the laws are governing personal laws or the laws of the state. If President Nixon or Clinton lies to the American people, they cannot escape punishment irrespective of the weak social norms.

We say that Islam is far superior to any religion whether revealed or man made. In this age of enquiry, we cannot even prove it practically unless we have glorious examples like the Holy Prophet (Peace and Blessings of Allah be upon him) and his companions (May Allah be pleased with them) and his immediate followers. We have no such living example in Pakistan. In the Holy Quran, a mention has been made of major sins such the association of anything with the Unity of Allah. At the time of the Conquest of Mecca, 360 idols were found and destroyed. It is said that Hindus make ‘gods’ of anything which is powerful than them. We also make idols from the President of the country, to the USA and down the line.

A mention has been made in the Quran of the Scriptures which Allah, in His Divine Mercy, handed over to the Prophet Moses. These Injunctions are common to every religion, revealed or man made, Read it and compare its injunctions viz.a.viz. The situation in Pakistan since independence. ‘Human failings’ are going by leaps and bounds in every field.  You just name it and it is found. Ego satisfaction, arrogance, conceit, adulteration in food and medicines, back biting, lies, stealing, perfidy, larceny, deceit, division of society from initially West and East Pakistan and later into provinces, cities, tribes, castes, have and have not feudal lords and serfs, the latter live in sub human conditions. Their situation reminds one of the conditions before the French Revolution. Everything Allama Iqbal in his Jawab-e-Shikwa warned us to avoid is going on in the country made in the Glorious name of Islam. Everything which Islam forbids is taken place.

TV channels and newspapers in Pakistan devote much time and space to fashions. Seeing the fashion shows it is difficult, for me at least, to decipher whether the dresses and models wearing those dresses, are made for the Pakistani market which is conservative. Ladies are posting their pictures on media channels such as Facebook which boggles the mind. It is difficult to reconcile the act with Quranic Injunctions.

Allah coineth a similitude: a township that dwelt secure and well content, its provision coming to it in abundance from every side, but it disbelieved in Allah’s favours, so Allah made it experience the garb of dearth and fear because of what they used to do.

Isn’t it time for all of us to seek Allah’s forgiveness and His Guidance?

By Mahfooz ur Rahman
Email: rahman.mahfooz.pk@gmail.com

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15 Nov 2011

Could Checking Facebook in Class Help Students Focus?

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A psychology professor says allowing students "tech breaks" actually helps them focus on on academics.
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